To a Woman of Virtue
I want to start this tribute on a lighter note.
The first time I visited Aunty Chizoba with my family in Atlanta – I remember wondering how we were going to survive the trip because she had a HUGE dog that lived with her and her family called “Duke.”
Now, for people who had never had pets, this felt like it would be a serious challenge.
As time went on though, we slowly realized that this dog actually reflected the attitude of its owners. This dog never barked, it was always calm, it was well behaved, it was patient, friendly, and very loving.
Now, this story might not mean much to many, but it actually means something to me because they say the attitude of pets are usually a reflection of their owners.
So basically, Duke had the character traits of aunty Chizoba.
Aunty Chizoba during that faithful trip always took care of my family like we were one of her own.
As a younger person, I was very much addicted to Oreo cookies and she eventually found this out. So she would always fill up her cookie jar every time I speedily finished through the older ones and my mother hated this because aunty Chizoba was basically spoiling me.
That holiday remains one of the best memories of my life because she took excellent care of me and my family during that period we spent with her and it remains with me till this day.
That’s what they call legacy.
I cannot believe that this tribute is being written but they say only two things are guaranteed in life – death and taxes.
Aunty, wherever you are, I want you to know that me and my family are forever indebted to you and uncle Chuka for the love you always showed to us.
I honestly pray that Nnamdi, Obinna and Afam can find some peace during this troubling period. I know how much they loved and respected you. This must truly be heartbreaking for them.
You were a lady of grace and a woman of high standards. You lived a quality life – although it wasn’t for as long as we would’ve hoped.
On behalf of me and my family, I write this as a form of encouragement and support to the family.
May God make it easy for you.
I pray that your gentle soul rests in perfect peace.
Words are not enough during this time but you will be truly missed.
God bless your soul.